Embracing Play: Nurturing Connection and Wellbeing in Families

In today's fast-paced world, where the demands on our mental health are constantly increasing, the need for innovative and accessible solutions to foster wellbeing is more important than ever. This pressing issue was the focus of a recent conversation with Charlotte Jenkins, the founder of Beacon Family Services. With over 20 years of experience in children's services, Charlotte emphasises the pivotal role of play in building strong, secure relationships within families.

Philippa

7/18/20252 min read

Pioneering Play-Based Therapies

Beacon Family Services is a not-for-profit organisation dedicated to offering play-based therapeutic support. Their approach champions the idea that relational solutions can drive significant change, not just for children but for entire families. Through play, children, parents, and caregivers are provided tools to build and maintain connection, which is foundational to thriving mental health.

Recent initiatives have included the co-founding of Lumin&US, a digital app designed to provide parents with therapeutic tools on-demand, thus broadening the reach of their services beyond traditional face-to-face interactions. Charlotte shared insights on how such digital solutions, alongside play-based therapies, can effectively support early interventions.

Understanding Stress and the Nervous System

Charlotte delves deep into how our nervous systems play a crucial role in parenting. With the constant stream of daily stressors, it is easy for parents to find themselves overwhelmed. These pressures not only affect their wellbeing but also resonate with children who, through their own nervous systems, pick up on parental stress.

Through Beacon Family Services, Charlotte introduces the concept of the "lighthouse model," encouraging parents to identify their emotional states and those of their children. By recognising when they are "on the rocks" or "struggling," parents are provided with the means to select appropriate play activities that align with their current emotional states.

Creating Calm Through Connection

Key to alleviating the pressures faced by families is fostering understanding and connection. Charlotte suggests that play is an essential tool not just for children’s development, but also for strengthening parent-child relationships. This is echoed in Philippa’s concerns about the unrealistic expectations placed on parents and children by societal standards. Through the app provided by Beacon Family Services, parents receive tailored suggestions based on their current needs and those of their children, empowering them to build joyful, stress-reducing experiences together.

Play: A Strategy for Thriving Families

Charlotte stresses the universal importance of play, noting that it often transcends structured activities. Simple, playful interactions—whether through cooking, yoga, or shared laughter—can be just as enriching as organised play. The app promotes these small moments of connection, leading to a sustained sense of well-being among participants.

Research conducted by Beacon Family Services has shown the profound impact of such interactions, with a significant majority of families reporting closer relationships and reduced conflict as a result of these brief, meaningful engagements.

Conclusion: Building Lasting Bonds

At its core, the mission of Beacon Family Services, and the essence of Charlotte's work, is to promote relationships where children and parents alike feel safe and understood. Through play, families can nurture connection, one small moment at a time. For those interested in exploring these concepts further or participating in ongoing research, the Beacon Family Services website provides valuable resources and opportunities to engage with their innovative programs.

Charlotte's unwavering commitment to fostering accessible solutions and enriching family connections reminds us all of the transformative power of play—a reminder that, often, the simplest interactions hold the greatest potential for lasting impact.

Website: https://luminusfamilywellbeing.com/